Significantly, romantic friendships can coexist with the fact of partners' marrying because their reason for being is not to replace marriage but to open the possibility of sustained, committed true love existing among friends, and not just same-sex friends. No matter that our chosen relationship commitments change. Those of us who have long-term romantic friendships, some that have lasted longer than any of our marriages or partnerships, do not fear that these commitments will falter if we create primary bonds. Bell Hooks
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If your partner is in a committed relationship with someone else, you can still be happy and still enjoy each others company. If the people in your life are only there for you because of your relationship with someone else, then that means that they are not really committed to you or they are just using you to get on someone else's good side. You can be nice to them but no one on the inside is feeling it.

Source: Communion: The Female Search For Love

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